How to Get His Attention Greif, Jasbina Ahluwalia, founder and CEO of successful matchmaking service Intersections Match, and psychotherapist Mary Waldon all agree that the number one tip for trying to date a shy guy is to take initiative!
Whether this means initiating eye contact, a conversation or a date, all of our experts stressed the importance of taking that first step.
This makes it easier for that interested but shy guy to approach you.
First, try out your small yet impressive smile, when you are in a mall or a club, try smiling at the girls and dont forget to look into their eyes.
This will make you look very approachable and responsive.
No, not drunk; I just get tongue tied and don't know what to say and typically say nothing. So, how do I combat this (for lack of better terms)? Start out with an observation about the environment you are both in, or a specific compliment about her wardrobe. There are a lot of google hits if you search for it. approach her with this one sentence in mind.." I HAVE NOTHING TO LOOSE and EVERYTHING TO GAIN" you don't know her. .will be just as nervous and protective as you will upon the beginning of the conversation. Do NOT approach her if she has her back against you as you will have a much higher chance of being rejected.
It is like the old joke how do you get to play at Carnegie Hall... Talk to everyone everywhere you go strike up conversations. One believes that every individual has the tools needed to get far in any relationship. but actually doing it is completely leave you some HW for the weekend.. she can easily just turn right around and ignore you. yoru success rate is much higher when you dont make the girl feel as if youre walking STRAIGHT to her.